Elena - Sexy Mature

They were "first loves" and represented a "normal" life.

Following her parents' death, Elena outgrew this relationship. She could no longer connect with Matt ’s desire for a traditional, stable future because her grief had fundamentally changed her world. 2. Stefan Salvatore : The "Epic" Healing Love sexy mature elena

Before the series begins, Elena’s relationship with Matt was built on childhood familiarity and shared history. They were "first loves" and represented a "normal" life